Amanda Price Asks “Are You Sabotaging Your Own Health And Wellbeing?”
How Is Your New Year’s Resolution To Do More Exercise Going?
If you have pretty much given up, then you are not alone. Your January enthusiasm for a new fit and healthy you, has given way to the old you. Don’t blame yourself, well, not entirely anyway.
The problem with resolutions or goals around fitness is that we tend to be too ambitious. We set the bar too high and then we get down on ourselves when we can’t meet our expectations. It becomes one extreme of the other – we either go to the gym 3 times a week as we promised or we don’t go at all. If we commit to go to the gym three times a week or we join an after-work running club or exercise class, it can be really hard to drum up the will to go when it’s dark, wet and cold outside. Maybe you use lack of time as a reason or you forget to bring your kit into work (no excuse if you work at home!). Perhaps, there’s something better and more attractive to do. We fitness trainers call this self-sabotage.
First of all, you have to aim lower. Set yourself a very achievable goal and choose to do a form of exercise you will enjoy. That doesn’t mean you can’t try something new because you may end up loving it. If you find going to the gym a real ordeal, then do something else. Maybe dancing is your thing. If you don’t enjoy doing something, you won’t stay motivated to keep doing it. And be realistic about how much time you have available to do this activity. If you’re going to a class or to a gym then bear in mind the travel and changing time. A goal that is both achievable and enjoyable means that you will be more likely to do it again and again. Consistency is key when it comes to forming a new exercise habit.
Secondly, find someone to exercise with or use a personal trainer. Accountability can really help and a good personal trainer will be with you all the way. I work with so many women who say they wouldn’t be doing the exercise, even though they enjoy it, if I wasn’t there telling them what to do, and supporting and encouraging them.
Thirdly, schedule exercise into your diary. Your health is as important as anything else so don’t leave exercise to chance.
Lastly, when I say aim lower you could go really small. If you struggle with the whole gym and organised exercise thing then why not try small bouts of exercise at home. A short walk in the morning, a ten minute HIIT session, a few exercises in the kitchen while you’re waiting for the kettle to boil. Integrating small amounts movement into your day can be just as beneficial as a session in the gym and if you tag these five or ten minute sessions onto something you do anyway, like boiling the kettle or visiting the bathroom, then it will quickly become easy to do. It will become a habit.
What can you do differently? Spend some time working out why you are sabotaging your health and fitness goals. The best solution for you will then become clearer. Our lives are fluid and change over time, so what works for you now may not work so well in a years’ time, so take time every few months to review how you are getting on. Remember that your health is worth the investment whether that is a financial investment or an investment of your time.
So, What’s Next For You? Your health is your wealth!
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About The Author
Amanda Price is a women’s Health Coach and Personal Trainer. She helps women aged 45 plus achieve their healthy weight, gain mental and physical energy, manage their menopause symptoms and reduce their risk of developing a chronic lifestyle disease such as type 2 diabetes and Alzheimer’s disease. She takes a whole- body view of health and is a diet agnostic. Via her bespoke coaching programs, she helps her clients make lifestyle habit changes. Amanda provides the support, accountability and encouragement as well as information to help her clients reach their health and fitness goals. Amanda helps her clients feel happier and healthier. She helps them age well.
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7 thoughts on “Amanda Price Asks “Are You Sabotaging Your Own Health And Wellbeing?””
I follow you on facebook and instagram and your regular but straightforward achieveable posts are the small and not too scary daily prod I need to ensure I remember to make a few minutes for me each day. With two teenagers I find my time can be easily lost with lifts here and there as well as dealing with their, and my own hormonal rollercoaster outbursts.
This is a great article, thank you Amanda. I think most people have experienced the failure of New Years resolutions and it just reinforces self negativity and low self-esteem so I love your ideas on how to avoid this and set yourself up for success.
Yes, I think you’re right, Amanda. I usually self-sabotage because I set myself unrealistic goals and then beat myself up when I don’t stick to them!
I like the idea of starting with small goals and incorporating them into things we already do as habit – I will consider that and see if I can start a ‘lower goal’ exercise regime that I can build on. Thank you.
I’ve been following Amanda since she started her FaceBook page- Fit and Thriving at 50+. She is very informative with her live posts and inspirational with her “30 day challenges”. It is fun to know I am participating with women with similar situations as myself… and I am across the pond!
Great article Amanda! The advice is spot on for getting back into a manageable exercise routine. Love it! ☺️
I love that last comment about participating with other women in a similar situation it really helps me and to have Amanda encouraging and nudging us along! Also agree that small steps work best for me. I have struggled with menopause and continue to do so but am navigating my way through as Bessie can! Thanks Amanda!
Accountability is so important! And I hadn’t really stopped to think about how much ourselves or our needs change over time. Great article.